Table of Contents
🎥 "When
Life Gives You Tangerines": Short Introduction
🎥 "When
Life Gives You Tangerines": The Short Video
🎯 Key
Takeaways
🎥 Grammatical
Analysis of the Dialogue
📎 Appendix. Drama Overview & the Characters
🎥 "When
Life Gives You Tangerines": Short Introduction
This heartfelt scene provides a raw and
emotional glimpse into the complex dynamics between a struggling daughter and
her mother in contemporary Korean society.
The dialogue centers around 양금명, a young woman who grew up in poverty
and is now grappling with the emotional scars of deprivation, and 오애순, her mother, who did her best with what
little she had.
This exchange is not only dramatic but
also deeply cultural. It unveils how poverty, shame, sacrifice, and love
are often intertwined in Korean families.
The mother-daughter fight crescendos
with biting remarks, but what’s more important is the unspoken pain beneath
their words—a theme often seen in Korean dramas.
For learners of Korean, this is a
fantastic scene to examine:
- How poverty is discussed in everyday
speech.
- How layered emotions are expressed
indirectly through tone, sarcasm, and cultural idioms.
- How the Korean language can shift
rapidly from neutral to confrontational, even within a single sentence.
A Practical Learning Guide
- You’ll hear the Korean concept of
‘궁상’ (pitifulness) being used sarcastically. In this case,
“궁상이
공치사야?” means “Is being pathetic something to brag about?”—a
powerful example of biting Korean irony.
- The line “가난이 유세야?” translates roughly to “Are you
flaunting your poverty?” It’s a very Korean expression of resentment and
frustration, often said in family conflicts.
- Notice the contrast in speech
levels: 양금명 speaks mostly in 반말 (casual tone), full of sarcasm and
pain, while 오애순 alternates between explaining and
defending, with sudden shifts in formality depending on her emotion. This
reflects the generational gap.
- Expressions like “죽어라 갖고 싶은데 죽어도 못 가지면서 크니까” offer insight into how Koreans use
repetition (“죽어라… 죽어도…”) for emphasis and emotional
buildup.
The scene touches on the cultural
stigma of poverty and marriage: the mother's mention of marriage as a solution
(“시집이라도…”) reflects outdated yet still prevalent ideas in Korea.
- At the end, 오애순 describes her own life as “쨍쨍했다” (bright and vivid)—a rarely used but
beautiful Korean expression implying that her life, though complex, had shining
moments.
🟡 This short clip is an
excellent opportunity to study:
- Emotional expressions in Korean
- Mother-daughter discourse
- Sarcastic speech forms
- Societal views on poverty and marriage
- Honorific shifts under emotional
stress
- The deeper cultural meaning of
sacrifice as a form of love
Let’s dive deeper into the actual
expressions in the next section, where we’ll break down the vocabulary and
grammar piece by piece.
🎥 "When Life Gives You Tangerines": The Short Video
This conversation could have
taken place between a Korean mother and daughter in the 1970s or 1980s. Many
Korean mothers likely related deeply to this scene, and many probably wept
while watching it. Passing down poverty from one generation to the next is a
pain that every parent wants to avoid. And for a parent, not being acknowledged
by their child makes it nearly impossible to feel recognized by anyone else.
Dialogue
양금명: “없이 커서 그런가, 그냥 계속 뭘 사고 싶어.”
Yang Geum-myeong: "Maybe it's because I grew up without
much, but I just keep wanting to buy things."
양금명: “샘은 많은데 돈은 없고.”
Yang Geum-myeong: "I have so many desires, but no
money."
양금명: “죽어라 갖고 싶은데 죽어도 못 가지면서 크니까 지금은 조금도 참기가 싫어.”
Yang Geum-myeong: "Growing up desperately wanting things I
could never have—I don’t want to hold back even a little anymore."
🐾 There are quite a few idiomatic expressions in Korean
related to death. Common examples include “피곤해 죽겠다” (I’m dead tired) and “죽기 살기로 ~하다” (to do something as if life depends on it). In this sentence,
“death” is mentioned twice. This doesn’t mean Koreans are familiar or
comfortable with death—it’s a way of strongly emphasizing emotion or intensity.
양금명: “그래 봐야 맨 싸구려들 사고 보는 거지 뭐.”
Yang Geum-myeong: "But in the end, all I get are cheap
things anyway."
오애순: “나는 좋은 거 하면서 너만 안 사준 거 아니야.”
Oh Ae-soon: "I didn't buy good things only for myself and
not for you."
오애순: “그래도 너한테는 내가 가진 것 중에서 제일로 좋은 것만 먹이고 입혔어.”
Oh Ae-soon: "Still, I gave you only the best of what I had
to eat and wear."
양금명: “엄마는 가난이 유세야? 궁상이 공치사야?”
Yang Geum-myeong: "Is poverty your brag now? Is being poor
something to be proud of?"
오애순: “왜 누가 괴롭혀?”
Oh Ae-soon: "Why? Is someone bothering you?"
양금명: “엄마가, 말하면 뭐 알아?”
Yang Geum-myeong: "You, Mom. Do you even understand if I
say anything?"
오애순: “너무 힘들면 시집이라도…”
Oh Ae-soon: "If it's too hard… maybe you should get
married…"
🐾 Back in the 1970s, when Korea was still a developing
country, our mothers often said things like this. Many held onto the illusion
that marriage could be a way out of poverty.
양금명: “그래서 뭐? 나도 엄마처럼 살라고.”
Yang Geum-myeong: "So what? You want me to live just like
you?"
해설(양금명): “엄마를 찌르면 내 가슴에도 똑같은 가시가 와서 박혔다.”
Narration (Yang Geum-myeong): "When I stabbed at my mom,
the same thorn pierced my own heart."
오애순: “그래 살지 마. 엄마처럼 살지 마.”
Oh Ae-soon: "Fine, don’t live like me. Don’t live like your
mother."
오애순: “근데 엄마는 엄마대로 행복했어. 엄마 인생도 나름 쨍쨍했어.”
Oh Ae-soon: "But I was happy in my own way. My life had its
own brightness, too."
오애순: “그림같은 순간이 얼마나 많았다고. 그러니까 딸이 엄마 인생도 좀
인정해 주라.”
Oh Ae-soon: "There were so many picture-perfect moments. So
please, as my daughter, acknowledge my life a little too."
🐾 This is a scene that our mothers and grandmothers could
deeply relate to—and break down in tears watching. After raising their child
with so much hardship, they’re now being pierced in the heart by that very
child.
🎯 Key Takeaways
📢 Explanations of basic dictionary
definitions have been omitted.
1. "없이 크다"
- "없이 크다" means "to grow up without (something)." It often
implies growing up in a lack or absence of necessities, love, or support.
- "없이": from "없다 (to not have, to be
without)" + adverbial ending "-이",
meaning "without"
- "크다": "to grow, to grow up"
📌
Example Usage
"부모 없이 큰 아이는 더
강해질 수밖에 없다."
"A child who grows up without parents inevitably becomes
stronger."
🌀🎨 Similar & Additional Expressions
"결핍 속에서 자라다" – "to grow up in deprivation"
📌
Example Usage
"그는 결핍 속에서 자라 스스로
모든 걸 해결해야 했다."
"He grew up in deprivation and had to take care of
everything himself."
2. "샘이 많다"
- "샘이 많다" means "to be very jealous" or "to be prone to
envy."
- "샘": noun meaning "jealousy" or "envy"
- "-이": subject particle "-이"
- "많다": adjective meaning "to be many, to have a lot (of)"
📌
Example Usage
"그 애는 샘이 많아서 친구가
다른 애랑 놀면 삐져."
"She's so jealous that she gets upset when her friend plays
with someone else."
🌀🎨 Similar & Additional Expressions
"질투가 많다" – "to be very jealous"
📌
Example Usage
"그는 질투가 많아서 늘 의심을
해."
"He’s very jealous and always suspicious."
3. "죽어라 ~하다"
- "죽어라 ~하다" means "to desperately do
something" or "to try something with all one's might."
- "죽어라": adverb from "죽다 (to die)",
used idiomatically to mean "like dying", i.e., desperately
- "~하다": verb meaning "to do" — the main verb changes based
on context
📌
Example Usage
"죽어라 공부했는데도 점수가
안 나왔어."
"I studied like crazy, but my score was still low."
🌀🎨 Similar & Additional Expressions
"미친 듯이 ~하다" – "to do something like
crazy"
📌
Example Usage
"그는 미친 듯이 달렸다."
"He ran like crazy."
4. "갖고 싶다"
- "갖고 싶다" means "to want to have" or "to desire to
own."
- "갖고": from "가지다 (to have, to
possess)" + "-고"
➡️✂️ “가지다” → “갖다” (contraction)
→ “갖고”
- "싶다": auxiliary verb meaning "to want to"
📌
Example Usage
"그 가방 정말 갖고 싶어."
"I really want to have that bag."
🌀🎨 Similar & Additional Expressions
"욕심이 나다" – "to feel greedy for / to covet"
📌
Example Usage
"그 자리에 욕심이 났다."
"I coveted that position."
5. "죽어도 못 ~하다"
- "죽어도 못 ~하다" means "to absolutely cannot
do something even if one dies" – emphasizes firm refusal or impossibility.
- "죽어도": "죽다 (to die)" + connective
"-어도 (even if)"
- "못~하다": negative auxiliary verb meaning
"cannot do ~"
📌
Example Usage
"나는 그 사람은 죽어도 못
잊어."
"I could never forget that person, not even in death."
🌀🎨 Similar & Additional Expressions
"절대 ~할 수 없다" – "absolutely cannot do
something"
📌
Example Usage
"그 일은 절대 받아들일 수
없어."
"I absolutely cannot accept that."
6. "조금도 ~하기 싫다"
- "조금도 ~하기 싫다" means "not want to do
something even a little bit." Expresses total reluctance.
- "조금도": "even a little"
- "~하기": nominalized form of a verb using "-기"
➡️ “하다” → “하기”
- "싫다": "to dislike / to not want to"
📌
Example Usage
"지금은 조금도 움직이기 싫어."
"I don't want to move at all right now."
🌀🎨 Similar & Additional Expressions
"전혀 ~하고 싶지 않다" – "not want to do
something at all"
📌
Example Usage
"전혀 말하고 싶지 않아."
"I don't want to talk at all."
7. "그래 봐야 맨 싸구려들"
- "그래 봐야 맨 싸구려들" means "even if you do that, it's all cheap stuff
anyway." A cynical expression of futility.
- "그래 봐야": "even if you do that / even so" (from "그렇게
해 보다 + -아야")
➡️✂️ “그렇게 해 보다” → “그렇게 해 보아야” → “그래 봐야”
- "맨": adverb meaning "only, just"
- "싸구려들": "싸구려 (cheap stuff)" +
plural marker "-들"
📌
Example Usage
"그래 봐야 맨 싸구려들만
사게 될 거야."
"Even if you try, you'll end up buying only cheap
stuff."
🌀🎨 Similar & Additional Expressions
"어차피 다 거기서 거기야" – "they're all the same anyway"
📌
Example Usage
"브랜드 바꿔 봐야 어차피
다 거기서 거기야."
"Even if you change the brand, they’re all the same
anyway."
8. "~중에서 제일로 좋은 것"
- "~중에서 제일로 좋은 것" means "the very best among ~"
- "~중에서": "among ~", indicating a selection
- "제일로": superlative form meaning "the most"
- "좋은 것": "좋다 (to be good)" +
attributive "-은" + noun "것 (thing)"
📌
Example Usage
"이 중에서 제일로 좋은 것만
골라봐."
"Pick only the very best among these."
🌀🎨 Similar & Additional Expressions
"가장 훌륭한 것" – "the most excellent thing"
📌
Example Usage
"그는 항상 가장 훌륭한 것을
고른다."
"He always chooses the best one."
9. "먹이고 입히다"
- "먹이고 입히다" means "to feed and clothe someone" – usually used
to describe providing basic care.
- "먹이다": causative form of "먹다 (to
eat)", meaning "to feed"
- "입히다": causative form of "입다 (to
wear)", meaning "to clothe"
📌
Example Usage
"부모는 자식을 먹이고 입히며
키운다."
"Parents raise their children by feeding and clothing
them."
🌀🎨 Similar & Additional Expressions
"보살피다" – "to take care of"
📌
Example Usage
"그녀는 아이들을 정성껏 보살폈다."
"She carefully took care of the children."
10. "가난이 유세다"
- "가난이 유세다" means "poverty is treated like a brag" or "you
act like being poor is something to show off." It’s a sarcastic remark
criticizing someone for justifying or boasting about their hardship.
- "가난이": "가난 (poverty)" + subject
marker "-이"
- "유세다": from "유세 (showing off,
flaunting)" + copula "-(이)다 (to be)"
🐾 When the final syllable of a noun has no 받침 (final consonant), the copula “-다” is added.
When the final syllable of a noun has a 받침, the copula “-이다” is used.
📌
Example Usage
"왜 자꾸 가난이 유세처럼
들리지?"
"Why does it always sound like you're bragging about being
poor?"
🌀🎨 Similar & Additional Expressions
"궁핍을 미화하다" – "to glorify poverty"
📌
Example Usage
"그는 자신의 궁핍을 미화하려는
경향이 있다."
"He tends to romanticize his own poverty."
11. "궁상이 공치사다"
- "궁상이 공치사다" means "being miserable is treated like an
accomplishment." Used to criticize self-pity, it has become a form of moral
superiority.
- "궁상": poverty-stricken appearance or behavior
- "공치사": self-congratulation
- "-(이)다": copula verb "to be"
📌
Example Usage
"궁상이 공치사인 줄 아는
태도가 싫어."
"I hate that attitude that turns misery into a virtue."
🌀🎨 Similar & Additional Expressions
"불행을 자랑하다" – "to boast about one's misfortune"
📌
Example Usage
"그는 늘 불행을 자랑하는
듯한 말을 해."
"He always talks like he's proud of his misfortunes."
12. "괴롭히다"
- "괴롭히다" means "to bother," "to harass," or
"to torment."
- "괴롭히다": causative verb meaning "to make someone suffer"
📌
Example Usage
"누가 널 괴롭혀?"
"Who's bothering you?"
🌀🎨 Similar & Additional Expressions
"못살게 굴다" – "to pick on"
📌
Example Usage
"형이 자꾸 나를 못살게 굴어."
"My brother keeps picking on me."
13. "말하면 뭐 알아"
- "말하면 뭐 알아" means "Even if I tell you, would you even
understand?" – expresses frustration and futility.
- "말하면": "말하다 (to say)" +
conditional ending "-면 (if)"
✂️ "뭐": colloquial "무엇 (what)"
- "알아": informal present of "알다 (to
know)"
📌
Example Usage
"말하면 뭐 알아, 그냥 넘어가."
"What’s the point of telling you? Just forget it."
🌀🎨 Similar & Additional Expressions
"얘기해도 소용없다" – "it’s useless to talk"
📌
Example Usage
"지금은 얘기해도 소용없어."
"There’s no point in talking right now."
14. "시집가다"
- "시집가다" means "to get married (for a woman)."
- "시집": bride’s marital home
- "가다": "to go"
Together implies a woman moving in with her husband’s family.
🐾 This is a word that originates from a male-centered
ideology and culture. In the past, during the Joseon Dynasty, when a man and
woman got married, they lived in the man’s home and took care of his parents.
📌
Example Usage
"언니는 다음 달에 시집가요."
"My sister is getting married next month."
🌀🎨 Similar & Additional Expressions
"결혼하다" – "to get married"
📌
Example Usage
"우리는 봄에 결혼할 계획이에요."
"We plan to get married in spring."
15. "엄마처럼 살다"
- "엄마처럼 살다" means "to live like (my) mom." It may evoke either
admiration or rejection, depending on the context.
- "엄마처럼": "엄마 (mom)" + simile
particle "-처럼 (like)"
- "살다": "to live"
📌
Example Usage
"나는 엄마처럼 살기 싫었어."
"I didn’t want to live like my mom."
🌀🎨 Similar & Additional Expressions
"누구를 닮다" – "to resemble someone (in life or actions)"
📌
Example Usage
"그녀는 어머니를 꼭 닮았어요."
"She’s just like her mother."
16. "찌르다"
- "찌르다" means "to stab" or "to poke." Can be
literal or metaphorical.
📌
Example Usage
"가시가 손을 찔렀다."
"The thorn pricked my hand."
🌀🎨 Similar & Additional Expressions
"쑤시다" – "to poke, jab"
📌
Example Usage
"막대기로 진흙을 쑤셨다."
"He poked the mud with a stick."
17. "가슴에 가시가 박히다"
- "가슴에 가시가 박히다" means "a thorn pierces the chest" — metaphor for
emotional pain or lasting hurt.
- "가슴에": "가슴 (chest)" + locative
particle "-에"
- "가시가": "가시 (thorn)" + subject
particle "-가"
- "박히다": passive form of "박다 (to drive
into)" meaning "to be embedded"
📌
Example Usage
"그 말에 가슴에 가시가 박힌
듯 아팠다."
"Those words hurt like a thorn stuck in my chest."
🌀🎨 Similar & Additional Expressions
"마음에 상처가 남다" – "to be left with an emotional wound"
📌
Example Usage
"그 일은 내 마음에 깊은
상처로 남았다."
"That incident left a deep scar in my heart."
18. "나름 쨍쨍했다"
- "나름 쨍쨍했다" means "in its way, it was bright and vivid." Often
used to reflect on a moment or period that had its brilliance or value, despite
difficulties.
- "나름": "in one's way" or "in its sense"
- "쨍쨍했다": past tense of "쨍쨍하다 (to be
bright, dazzling, intense — usually sunshine or mood)"
📌
Example Usage
"그 시절도 나름 쨍쨍했다."
"That time had its own brightness."
🌀🎨 Similar & Additional Expressions
"나쁘지만은 않았다" – "it wasn’t all bad"
📌
Example Usage
"힘들었지만 나쁘지만은 않은
시절이었다."
"It was hard, but not entirely bad."
19. "그림 같은 순간"
- "그림 같은 순간" means "a picture-perfect moment." Used for
beautiful, almost unreal or emotionally touching moments.
- "그림 같은": "그림 (picture, painting)" +
simile particle "-같은 (like)"
- "순간": moment
📌
Example Usage
"그와 마주한 그 순간은 정말
그림 같았다."
"The moment I faced him was like a painting."
🌀🎨 Similar & Additional Expressions
"영화 같은 장면" – "a movie-like scene"
📌
Example Usage
"첫 키스는 영화 같은 장면이었다."
"Our first kiss was like a scene from a movie."
20. "엄마 인생도 좀 인정해 주라"
- "엄마 인생도 좀 인정해 주라" means "please acknowledge mom’s life too." It’s a
plea for emotional recognition and respect.
- "엄마": mom
- "인생도": "인생 (life)" + additive
particle "-도 (also)"
- "좀": softener meaning "please" or "a little"
- "인정해 주라": "인정하다 (to acknowledge)" +
benefactive form "-주다" + imperative informal
ending "-라"
📌
Example Usage
"엄마 인생도 좀 인정해 줘야
하지 않아?"
"Shouldn’t you acknowledge Mom’s life, too?"
🌀🎨 Similar & Additional Expressions
"이해해 주다" – "to understand (someone) with compassion"
📌
Example Usage
"그녀의 선택도 좀 이해해
줘."
"Try to understand her choice, too."
🎥 Grammatical Analysis of the Dialogue
📢 The parts that are difficult for foreign
learners to grasp are consistently addressed, even if they are repeated
multiple times. Please keep that in mind.
양금명: “없이 커서 그런가, 그냥
계속 뭘 사고 싶어.”
🔍
Analysis
- "없이 커서 그런가": "없이 (without)" + “크다
(to grow up)” + "-어서"
(connective ending expressing reason) + "-그런가"
(is it because...) → expresses a speculative cause.
- "그냥 계속 뭘 사고 싶어": "그냥 (just)" + "계속 (continuously)" + "뭘 (shortened
form of '무엇을')" + "사다
(to buy)" + "-고 싶어 (want to)".
📌
Example Usage
"부족하게 자라서 그런가, 자꾸 뭔가를 사고 싶어."
"Maybe because I grew up lacking things, I keep wanting to
buy stuff."
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Meaning
"Maybe it's because I grew up having nothing—I just
constantly feel like buying things."
양금명: “샘은 많은데 돈은 없고.”
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Analysis
- "샘은 많은데": "샘 (greed, craving)" +
subject marker "-은" + “많다 (to be many)“ + contrastive connector "-은데 (but, though)".
- "돈은 없고": "돈 (money)" + topic marker
"-은" + "없다 (to
not exist, to not have)" + "-고 (and,
continuing tone)".
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Example Usage
"욕심은 넘치는데 정작 돈은
하나도 없어."
"I’m full of desires, but I don’t have any money."
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Meaning
"I have so much desire, but no money."
양금명: “죽어라 갖고 싶은데 죽어도 못 가지면서 크니까 지금은 조금도 참기가 싫어.”
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Analysis
- "죽어라 갖고 싶은데": "죽어라 (desperately, to
death)" + "갖다 (to have)" + "-고
싶다 (want to)" + contrastive connective "-은데".
- "죽어도 못 가지면서": "죽어도 (even if I die)" +
"가지다 (to have)" + negative modal "못" + "-으면서 (while ~ing, although
~ing)".
- "크니까": "크다 (to grow up)" +
"-니까 (since, because)".
- "지금은 조금도 참기가 싫어": "지금 (now)" + topic marker
"-은" + "조금도 (not
even a little)" + "참다 (to endure)" +
nominalizer "-기" + "싫다 (to dislike, hate)".
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Example Usage
"어릴 때는 갖고 싶어도 못
가졌으니까, 지금은 참는 게 너무 싫어."
"I couldn’t have what I wanted as a kid, so now I hate
holding back even a little."
☀️
Meaning
"I grew up desperately wanting things I could never have,
so now I don’t want to hold back even a little."
양금명: “그래 봐야 맨 싸구려들 사고 보는 거지 뭐.”
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Analysis
- "그래 봐야": "그렇게 하다 (to try that)" +
"-아/어 봐야 (even if you try
doing that)" → implies futility.
➡️✂️ “그렇게 하다” → “그렇게 해 봐야” → “그래
봐야” (contraction)
- "맨 싸구려들": "맨 (only, nothing but)" +
"싸구려들 (cheap things)".
- "사고 보는 거지 뭐": "사다 (to buy)" + "-고
보다 (end up doing)" + "-는 거지
(just, it’s that)" + "뭐 (you know, resigned
tone)".
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Example Usage
"그렇게 해봤자 결국 싼 것만
사게 되더라."
"No matter what I do, I end up buying only cheap
stuff."
☀️
Meaning
"Even then, I end up just buying cheap stuff."
오애순: “나는 좋은 거 하면서 너만 안 사준 거 아니야.”
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Analysis
- "나는 좋은 거 하면서": "나 (I)" + topic marker
"-는" + "좋은 거
(good things)" + "하다 (to do/buy/make)" +
"-면서 (while doing that)".
- "너만 안 사준 거 아니야": "너만 (only you)" + "안
사주다 (not buy for)" + attributive “-ㄴ” (past tense) + "것 → 거 (thing)" + "아니다 (is not)" + sentence-final
ending “-야” → "It's not that I only didn’t buy for
you."
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Example Usage
"나도 좋은 거 쓰긴 했지만, 너만 안 챙긴 건 아니야."
"I did use good things too, but it’s not like I left you
out."
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Meaning
"I did get good things too, but it's not like I only didn’t
buy them for you."
오애순: “그래도 너한테는 내가 가진 것 중에서 제일로 좋은 것만 먹이고 입혔어.”
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Analysis
- "그래도 너한테는": "그래도 (even so)" + "너한테 (to you)" + topic particle "-는".
- "내가 가진 것 중에서": "내가 (I + subject marker)"
+ "가지다 (to have)" + noun modifier "-ㄴ" + "것 (things)" + "중에서 (among)".
- "제일로 좋은 것만": "제일로 (the most)" + "좋다 (good)" + noun modifier "-은"
+ "것만 (only those things)".
- "먹이고 입혔어": "먹이다 (to feed)" + connective
“-고 (and)” + "입히다 (to
clothe)" + past tense "-었어".
➡️ “입히다” → “입혔다” → “힙혔어”
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Example Usage
"있는 것 중에 가장 좋은
것만 너한테 먹이고 입혔어."
"I gave you only the best of what I had to eat and
wear."
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Meaning
"Even so, I gave you only the very best of what I had to
eat and wear."
양금명: “엄마는 가난이 유세야? 궁상이 공치사야?”
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Analysis
- "가난이 유세야": "가난 (poverty)" + subject
marker "-이" + "유세 (bragging, boasting)" + question ending "-야?"
- "궁상이 공치사야": "궁상 (miserableness, pitiful
living)" + subject marker "-이" + "공치사 (self-praise)" + question ending "-야?"
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Example Usage
"가난했던 걸 자랑처럼 말하는
거야?"
"Are you bragging about being poor?"
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Meaning
"Are you boasting about your poverty? Is your miserableness
something to take credit for?"
오애순: “왜 누가 괴롭혀?”
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Analysis
- "왜": "왜 (why)".
- "누가 괴롭혀": "누가 (who + subject
marker)" + "괴롭히다 (to bother, bully)" +
present tense ending "-어?"
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Example Usage
"왜? 누가 널 힘들게 해?"
"Why? Is someone giving you a hard time?"
☀️
Meaning
"Why? Who’s bothering you?"
양금명: “엄마가, 말하면 뭐 알아?”
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Analysis
- "엄마가": "엄마 (mom)" + subject
marker "-가".
- "말하면 뭐 알아": "말하다 (to say)" +
conditional "-면 (if)" + "뭐 (what)" + "알다 (to
understand)" → rhetorical: "what would you understand even if I
said?"
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Example Usage
"내가 말해도 뭘 알아듣겠어?"
"Even if I tell you, would you get it?"
☀️
Meaning
"You wouldn’t even understand if I told you."
오애순: “너무 힘들면 시집이라도…”
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Analysis
- "너무 힘들면": "너무 (too, very)" + "힘들다 (to be hard)" + conditional "-면
(if)".
- "시집이라도": "시집 (marriage, to husband’s
house)" + "-이라도 (even, at least)".
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Example Usage
"너무 힘들면 시집이라도 가서
편히 살아."
"If it’s too hard, maybe you should just get married."
☀️
Meaning
"If life is too hard, maybe you should just get
married…"
양금명: “그래서 뭐? 나도 엄마처럼 살라고.”
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Analysis
- "그래서 뭐": "그래서 (so)" + "뭐 (what)" → "so what?"
- "나도 엄마처럼 살라고": "나도 (I too)" + "엄마처럼 (like mom)" + "살다 (to live)"
+ "-라고 (so that I should...)" → accusatory
rhetorical question.
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Example Usage
"그래서? 나도 너처럼 살라고?"
"So what, you want me to live like you?"
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Meaning
"So what? You want me to live like you, Mom?"
해설(양금명): “엄마를 찌르면 내 가슴에도 똑같은 가시가 와서 박혔다.”
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Analysis
- "엄마를 찌르면": "엄마 (mom)" + object
particle "-를" + "찌르다 (to stab)" + conditional "-면
(if)".
- "내 가슴에도": "내 (my)" + "가슴 (chest/heart)" + additive particle "-에도 (also in)".
- "똑같은 가시가 와서 박혔다": "똑같다 (to be the same)" +
noun modifier "-은" + "가시 (thorn)" + subject marker "-가"
+ "오다 (to come)" + connective "-아서" + "박히다 (to be stuck)" +
past tense "-었다".
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Example Usage
"그녀를 상처 주면 결국 나도
아파."
"If I hurt her, I end up hurting myself too."
☀️
Meaning
"When I hurt my mom, it’s like the same thorn pierces my
own heart."
오애순: “그래 살지 마. 엄마처럼 살지 마.”
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Analysis
- "그래 살지 마": "그래 (like that)" + "살다 (to live)" + prohibitive "-지 마
(don’t)".
- "엄마처럼 살지 마": "엄마처럼 (like mom)" + "살지
마 (don’t live)".
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Example Usage
"나처럼 살지 마. 너답게 살아."
"Don’t live like me. Live your own way."
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Meaning
"Then don’t live like that. Don’t live like me."
오애순: “근데 엄마는 엄마대로 행복했어. 엄마 인생도 나름 쨍쨍했어.”
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Analysis
- "근데 엄마는 엄마대로": "✂️ 그런데 → 근데 (but)" +
"엄마는 (as for mom)" + "엄마대로 (in her own way)".
- "행복했어": "행복하다 (to be happy)" +
past tense "-었어".
➡️ “행복하다” → “행복했다”: → “행복했어”
- "엄마 인생도 나름 쨍쨍했어": "엄마 인생 (mom’s life)" +
additive particle "-도" + "나름 (in its own way)" + "쨍쨍하다 (to be
radiant, vivid)" + past tense.
➡️ “쨍쨍하다” → “쨍쨍했다” → “쨍쨍했어”
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Example Usage
"내 인생도 나름대로 괜찮았어."
"My life wasn’t so bad either, in its own way."
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Meaning
"But I was happy in my own way. My life was bright in its
own way too."
오애순: “그림같은 순간이 얼마나 많았다고. 그러니까 딸이 엄마 인생도 좀
인정해 주라.”
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Analysis
- "그림같은 순간이": "그림같다 (like a picture)" +
noun modifier "-은" + "순간 (moment)" + subject marker "-이".
- "얼마나 많았다고": "얼마나 (how much)" + "많다 (many)" + past tense "-았-" +
"-다고 (quotative)" → rhetorical emphasis.
- "그러니까 딸이 엄마 인생도
좀 인정해 주라": "그러니까 (so)"
+ "딸이 (daughter + subject)" + "엄마
인생도 (mom’s life + -도)" + "좀 (a bit)" + "인정하다 (to
acknowledge)" + "주다 (do for someone)" +
imperative ending "-라".
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Example Usage
"나도 나름 괜찮은 순간들이
있었어. 그러니까 인정해 줘."
"I had good moments too. So please acknowledge that."
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Meaning
"I had so many picture-perfect moments. So please, as my
daughter, acknowledge my life too."
📎 Appendix. Drama Overview & the Characters
양금명 (아이유)
- Character/Role: “Yang Geum‑myeong” – the couple’s eldest
daughter in adulthood; also “Oh Ae‑sun” in youth.
- Description: Played by IU (Lee Ji‑eun), she portrays two
distinct phases: the rebel poet‑aspirant Ae‑sun in her youth and her
mature daughter Geum‑myeong. IU’s versatility is praised.
- Significance: Ae‑sun’s character shows a strong, determined
woman overcoming poverty to pursue poetry and love. Geum‑myeong narrates her
mother’s life, reflecting on family history.
오애순 (문소리)
- Character/Role: “Oh Ae‑sun” – middle-aged version.
- Description: Portrayed by Moon So‑ri, she brings depth to
Ae‑sun’s emotional journey as an adult, reflecting on decades of love,
sacrifice, and resilience.
- Significance: embodies the story’s emotional core, bridging
past and present and grounding the narrative in mature reflection.
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Please refer to other posts in the K-Drama Bites category on the blog for a drama
overview.
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